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Unique Abilities

I went to a Vision Retreat last week and part of that was asking friends/family members and professional associates what your unique abilities are. What your good at, what your strengths are, what they seek you out for.

This was a fascinating task for me and I was overwhelmed by the responses.

Here were my top 7 responses (Themes)

1. Calming
2. Understanding
3. Trustworthy
4. Caring
5. Adviser - always listens and gives great advice.
6. Smart/logical/rational
7. Positive/upbeat

In the 20 responses I received back, those were the overwhelming responses from almost everyone, though everyone elaborated and said such amazing things that made me cry.

Calming was said more than anything else, that exact word and that completely surprised me. I hadn't thought of that word to describe myself before.

Here is my take on the top 7

1. Calming due to having 4 kids, my mind is used to the chaos, so I've learned how to be calm.
2. Understanding. I try to look at things from other people's point of view, however I'm no fool.
3. Trustworthy. I take this one very seriously. I don't cheat, I don't lie, I can't stand to see other's do those things. I am loyal to my family, friends, company, clients. I do what's best for others, even when it's not what benefits me.
4. Caring. I think this speaks for itself. I care about the people in my life deeply.
5. Adviser. I believe that all of the experiences I've had, have given me a perspective that resonates with others. I love sharing the lessons I've learned, good and bad, hoping that others will learn from them.
6. Smart/logical/rational. In my opinion, logical would be the biggest one of these three. I know they all apply, but I am a very logical person at the end of day.
7. Positive/upbeat. No one is positive/upbeat all of the time, but again living the past I've lived, has made me appreciate the life I have now. Here's a good quote that reminds me of that.

And that is what makes me positive/upbeat today. 

If you haven't asked your friends/family the questions above, try it out. You might learn something new about yourself. It certainly helps you to self - reflect, gives you insight into how you're perceived, and will help you decide if you're reflecting your true intention. 

As always, I'm open to questions and comments.

MW
Copyright 2016


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